A text for all read and think.

Do you know what the love is or not?

We talk a lot about love, friendship, passion. What do you think if we talk about what love isn’t?

If you need someone to be happy, to realize yourself. This is not love. It’s necessity.

If you are jealous, insecure, and make any thing to conserve someone by your side, even you know that you are not loved, and you say you trust this person, but you don’t trust the others, that they seem all rivals. This is not love. It’s lack of own love.

If you believe that it’s bad with him, worst without him, and your life gets empty without this person, you can not imagine yourself alone and you keep a relationship that it’s already over, only because you don’t have own life, you exist because of the others. This is not love. It’s dependence.

If you think that the loved being belongs to you, you feel like the owner and master of his life and body, you don’t give him the right of express himself, to have choices, only to affirm your domination. This is not love. It’s selfishness.

If you don’t feel desire, don’t accomplish yourself sexually. You prefer to have no sexual relations with this person; however you feel some pleasure when you are with him. This is not love. It’s friendship.

If you fight by any motive. You feel very jealousy each other. You fight by anything, neither always you all make the same plans. You disagree in many situations, nor like to make the same things or to go to the same places, but sexually you combine perfectly. This is not love. It’s desire.

Your heart beat stronger. The sweat becomes intense. Your temperature gets up and down vertiginously. Only in thinking of the other person. This is not love. It’s passion.

Now that you know what the love is not. It's easier to analyze and verify what is happening and try to solve the situation, or plan to attract someone you feel caress and desire, and he feels the same for you, then you two can build an equilibrate relationship, where the true love may exist.

Aaron...